Real dispute is between Materialism and Spiritualism
This idea derived from Upanishads explains that every soul is an
integral part of the Supreme Spirit. Thus all of us have a relationship
which is irrevocable. When the fight is between merit and demerit,
between virtue and vice or between righteousness and wickedness, one
should not flee from one’s duty or responsibility. Actually the Gita
draws an analogy from the family dispute of Kauravas and Pandavas to
that of dispute between materialism and spiritualism. Arjuna’s dilemma
is the dilemma of the mind which aims at liberation to get rid of
afflictions but is unwilling to leave the attachments. Kauravas and
Pandavas become one at the level of Krishna Dwaipayana who is their real
grandfather. Materialism or hedonism is nothing but association with the
body of Brahman or Supreme Spirit and spiritualism is nothing but
association with Nirgun Brahma or Supreme Spirit itself or assimilation
with it. An ignorant mind thinks that a good life is a life of maximum
enjoyment. A good action is one which leads to a balance of pleasure and
a bad action is one which brings about more pain than pleasure. Wealth
is a means and end of human life is material enjoyment. Apparently
Mahabharata is a battle for the sharing of the wealth of Hastinapur
kingdom. But Arjuna knows that the character of material enjoyment is
transitory. So he is not enamoured of worldly pleasures. He is placed
between materialism and spiritualism.